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	<title>Comments on: &quot;I don&#8217;t know what to do!!&quot;</title>
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		<title>By: Lanie Painie</title>
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		<description>In my experience, when kiddos say that or even &quot;I&#039;m bored&quot; a lot, it is more a reflection of anxiety they are feeling and don&#039;t have the vocabulary to express. They may not even know that they are anxious or what it is all about. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It can be so annoying when they do it because they sound so ungrateful and spoiled! Usually some physical stress-reducing activity or just a nice long talk will leave them feeling more centered. I think the root of the problem is sometimes that they don&#039;t know what to do in order to relieve their anxiety.  I usually don&#039;t respond to the bored or what should I do comments and try to engage them in conversation about things they might be worrying about.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I hope that helps! I am obviously not be an expert on child psychology, but I know how my own brain works and worked when I was a kid. I can remember feeling like that and looking back I think . . .hmmm. .. this is what was happening to me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my experience, when kiddos say that or even &#8220;I&#8217;m bored&#8221; a lot, it is more a reflection of anxiety they are feeling and don&#8217;t have the vocabulary to express. They may not even know that they are anxious or what it is all about. </p>
<p>It can be so annoying when they do it because they sound so ungrateful and spoiled! Usually some physical stress-reducing activity or just a nice long talk will leave them feeling more centered. I think the root of the problem is sometimes that they don&#8217;t know what to do in order to relieve their anxiety.  I usually don&#8217;t respond to the bored or what should I do comments and try to engage them in conversation about things they might be worrying about.</p>
<p>I hope that helps! I am obviously not be an expert on child psychology, but I know how my own brain works and worked when I was a kid. I can remember feeling like that and looking back I think . . .hmmm. .. this is what was happening to me!</p>
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